Grief Support Tool — Man Counsellor

Grounding and reflection to help you get through the next stretch of grief. Permission to feel what you feel, for as long as you feel it.

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Urgent Help — If you are in immediate danger, call 000. Australian crisis lines and emergency mental-health contacts for when you need urgent help.
Anger — Practical tools to manage anger: a 90-second pause timer, walk-away scripts, body reset and reflection prompts. Private, free, between-session support.
Anxiety — Grounding and worry-management tools for anxiety: breathing, name-the-worry, facts-vs-fear and next-action prompts to calm a racing mind.
Low Mood — Small-step tools for when everything feels heavy: body basics check, the smallest next step, and prompts to get through the next hour.
Grief — Gentle tools to sit with grief: permission to not be okay, memory notes, and grounding to help you get through the next stretch.
Alone — Tools to understand and ease loneliness: name the kind of alone you feel, take one low-pressure connection step, and avoid making it worse.
Overwhelmed — Tools to reset your nervous system and get through overwhelm: breathing, grounding, and sorting what is yours to carry
Calm Now — Quick calming tools: breathing exercises and grounding to settle your nervous system in the next few minutes.
Breathing Tool — A guided breathing exercise to calm your nervous system and reduce anxiety or anger in a few minutes. Free and private.
Grounding Tool — Use your senses to come back to the present moment with this 5-4-3-2-1 grounding exercise for anxiety and overwhelm.
Anger Delay Tool — Draft the message you want to send without sending it. Delay your reaction, then decide whether it still needs saying.
Thought Sorting Tool — Sort racing thoughts into what you can control, what you can influence, and what to let go of. Private reflection tool.
Session Prep Tool — Prepare for your next counselling session: note what's been hard, what triggered you, and what helped. Bring it with you.
Support Plan Tool — tools/Support Plan Tool on Man Counsellor Support Tools. Free, private tools to help manage anger, anxiety, low mood, grief and overwhelm.
Anger Pause — The intensity of anger peaks and drops within about 90 seconds. Ride it out with this simple timer before you react.
Walk Away — Walk Away on Man Counsellor Support What to say and do when you need to leave the room: a short script to step away safely and return when calm.
Body Reset Mini — Unclench your jaw, drop your shoulders, unball your fists and breathe. A physical reset to lower anger in your body.
Anger Reflection — Anger is often a secondary emotion. Reflect on what happened, what's underneath, and what you actually need.
Name Worry — Anxiety feeds on vagueness. Name the worry, the worst case, how likely it is, and what you'd do if it happened.
Facts Fears — Anxiety blurs what's real and what you're imagining. Sort the facts from the fears, then take one reasonable step.
Next Action — You don't need a plan for everything. Identify one small thing you can do in the next 15 minutes.
Smallest Step — When everything feels heavy, pick the tiniest thing — getting up, drinking water, opening a curtain. That's enough.
Body Check — Sometimes low mood has a physical base. Check the basics: food, water, shower, outside, movement.
Grounding Text — You don't need to solve your whole life today. Read these grounding reminders and bring them to your next session.
Reach Out — You don't have to do this alone. Think of one person you trust and what you could say to them.
Permission — Grief isn't a problem to solve. You're allowed to feel what you feel, for as long as you feel it.
Memory Note — Write down a memory, a feeling, or something you want to hold onto. Private — nothing is submitted.
Next Hour — Don't think about tomorrow. Just the next hour. Identify what you need and one thing you could do.
Brain Dump — Get everything out of your head. Don't organise, just write. A private space to unload whatever's on your mind.
Pick One — You can't do everything. Pick one thing you can complete in the next 15 minutes and do that.
Ten Minute Reset — Step away from everything for 10 minutes. Walk, stretch, or just sit. Set the timer and take the break.
Tools Hub — Browse every support tool by what you're dealing with: anger, anxiety, low mood, grief, overthinking, sleep and urges. Practical, private, free.
Nervous System Reset — For when you feel flooded, angry, panicked or overwhelmed: a 60-second reset to calm your nervous system.
Anger Cool Down — For when you feel like reacting or escalating. Step away, reflect on the cost, and choose the better next move before you send that message.
Anxiety Grounding — Use your senses to come back to the present when anxiety spikes. A grounding exercise you can do anywhere.
Facts Vs Fear — Separate what you know for certain from what you're imagining. Cut through anxiety by sorting facts from fears, then take one reasonable step.
Low Mood Step — When everything feels heavy, pick one tiny thing. One small step is enough for now.
Grief Support — Grounding and reflection to help you get through the next stretch of grief. Permission to feel what you feel, for as long as you feel it.
Relationship Pause — Pause before the conversation gets worse. Step away, reflect, and come back when you can talk calmly.
Sleep Wind Down — Brain dump and body check before bed. Quiet a racing mind and prepare for sleep.
Urge Surfing — Delay action on urges. The wave rises and falls — ride it out instead of acting. A tool for cravings and impulses.
Values Next Step — Act on who you want to be, not how you feel. Choose your next step based on your values.
Work Stress — Leave work stress at the door. A decompression routine to transition out of work mode before stress spills into home life.
Control Sorting — Sort what is yours to carry, what you can influence, and what to let go of. Reduce overthinking and stress.
Support Message Builder — Copy a ready-to-send message to reach out to someone safe when you're struggling. You don't have to do this alone.
Name The Alone — Loneliness has different shapes. Identify the kind of alone you feel so you can respond to it more precisely.
Connection Step — Take one small, low-pressure step toward connection when you feel alone. Choose an action and reflect.
Dont Make It Worse — Identify warning signs that you're about to make loneliness worse, and commit to one safer 10-minute action instead.
Body Reset — Check the physical basics that can make low mood feel heavier, then choose one small reset for the next 10 minutes.
New Session Prep — Prepare for your next counselling session: note what's been hard, what triggered you, and what helped.
After The Blow Up — tools2/After The Blow Up on Man Counsellor Support Tools. Free, private tools to help manage anger, anxiety, low mood, grief and overwhelm.
Repair Without Excuses — tools2/Repair Without Excuses on Man Counsellor Support Tools. Free, private tools to help manage anger, anxiety, low mood, grief and overwhelm.
Urges Addiction — Delay action on urges. Put space between the urge and the behaviour, identify what's underneath, and choose one safe interruption.
Mentor Landing — mentor/Mentor Landing on Man Counsellor Support Tools. Free, private tools to help manage anger, anxiety, low mood, grief and overwhelm.
Mentor How Developed — mentor/Mentor How Developed on Man Counsellor Support Tools. Free, private tools to help manage anger, anxiety, low mood, grief and overwhelm.
Mentor Disclaimer Page — mentor/Mentor Disclaimer Page on Man Counsellor Support Tools. Free, private tools to help manage anger, anxiety, low mood, grief and overwhelm.
Not Sure Feeling — Answer a few simple prompts to find the right support tool for what you're feeling right now. Private — your answers are not submitted or monitored.
Resources — Plain-English guides on anger, anxiety, depression, grief, relationships, sleep, stress and addiction — what to try now and what to bring to counselling.
Contact — Get in touch with Man Counsellor to book a session, change an appointment, or ask a question.
Privacy — How the Man Counsellor support tools handle your data. Nothing you type is submitted, monitored or stored — the tools are private thought exercises.